Ur Gay Now

LGBTQ+ friendly community

Welcome to Ur Gay Now

The official community hub for Ur Gay Now.

What we offer

Multiple ways to hang out, connect, and celebrate together.

VRChat

Hang out in VRChat worlds and events — full-body fun, games, and good vibes only.

Discord

Chat, share, and stay connected with 200+ community members on our Discord server.

Events

Daily game nights, world parties, and special celebrations you won't want to miss.

Community

Safe, inclusive spaces where you can be authentically you and find your people.

Friends

Build lasting friendships with people who share your interests and energy.

What’s Happening

Live events, upcoming plans, the latest news, and active polls — everything you need to jump in.

Live Now
1 event happening
Sept1

Halloween event

Live Now

1 Sept 2026, 00:00 – 1 Nov 2026, 00:00

Other

🎃 Halloween Avatar Contest 🎃 🧡 How to Join Send Bluey Barks your Halloweenthemed entry along with your VRChat username! Your submission can be: 👻 A Halloween avatar 🎨 Avatar artwork 📸 A themed photo/screenshot 🎭 Cosplay Get creative—we'd love to see creepy, cute, spooky, funny, or completely cursed creations! 💎 Prize 🏆 The winner will receive 1 Year of VRChat+ OR Discord Nitro (winner's choice)! 🗳️ Community Voting Once submissions close, server members will vote for their favorite entry. The submission with the most votes wins, so make your entry stand out! Good luck, and we can't wait to see everyone's Halloween creativity! 🎃💀✨

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Community highlights

A snapshot of what we've built together.

👥28Staff & volunteers
🎉1Events hosted
📸0Community photos

Meet the team

The lovely humans who keep things running.

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Bluey Barks

@Bluey Bark

Founder

Love is confusing. It's unknown. It's a battle where no one truly knows who will win or who will lose. Don't rush it. Be patient. Listen to what your heart, mind, and body are telling you—they often know what you need long before you do. Trust the journey, and let love unfold in its own time.

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Pups Barks

@Pups Barks

Co-Founder

Just a chill person to talk to who you can ask anything, and I have the best boy in the world<3

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༒Sunny_shrew༒

@༒Sunny_shrew༒

Co-Owner

just call me sunny and feel free to ask me anything except the 9th of aprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilapril-

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ApplePie

@ApplePieYes

Co-Owner

hi

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RaverDoggo

@ChaseThe0tter

Co-Owner

Hi im chase, IVE been with ugn since March/April trying my best at making people happy and feel welcomed. I want everyone to be at peace with no fighting. Im also a otter/regulus and love to be silly even if I’m shy a lot of the time.

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Cat 6241

@Cat 6241

Safeguarding

Friendly,Quiet,Mysterious, Feel Free To Ask Questions (Always Happy To Help Even If Quiet :3)